Always look on the bright side of life

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最近失眠。进了大学后，便经常如此。不知为何，头昏脑胀得厉害，却倔强地不入眠。为何如此不安。可是有什么结不解？自己却原来最不明白自己。

细想以前初中也是如此。神经敏感，无端比别人多了许多不足道的心事，让众多理当一瞬即过的小情绪盘旋，回味许久。不懂疏解。
也从不松口说自己压力大。压力来时，只一味承受。现在总算会辨别，若一闭眼，那满天的被放大几十倍面积的景象扑面而来，便是压力过大了。学会辨别，只是第一步。

要学的，还很多。包括学会了解自己，控制自己，什么方法对自己最有效，最好。

很多时候，我很想像嘴上说的那样轻松，不在乎。
可小小的失眠，其实是告诉我，我在乎太多东西了。

Quotations for INFP--Idealists:

They are on a continuous mission to find the truth and meaning underlying things. Every encounter and every piece of knowledge gained gets sifted through the INFP's value system, and is evaluated to see if it has any potential to help the INFP define or refine their own path in life.

INFPs do not like conflict, and go to great lengths to avoid it. If they must face it, they will always approach it from the perspective of their feelings. In conflict situations, INFPs place little importance on who is right and who is wrong. They focus on the way that the conflict makes them feel, and indeed don't really care whether or not they're right. They don't want to feel badly. This trait sometimes makes them appear irrational and illogical in conflict situations.

INFPs have very high standards and are perfectionists. Consequently, they are usually hard on themselves, and don't give themselves enough credit. INFPs may have problems working on a project in a group, because their standards are likely to be higher than other members' of the group. In group situations, they may have a "control" problem. The INFP needs to work on balancing their high ideals with the requirements of every day living. Without resolving this conflict, they will never be happy with themselves, and they may become confused and paralyzed about what to do with their lives.

该说什么呢。怎么才能让自己满意呢。看来我该再看一遍野猪大改造了。

posted by bigfish @ 1:05 AM